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		<title>By: What Makes Bloggers Want to Link to You? : The Blog Herald</title>
		<link>http://lorelle.wordpress.com/2006/08/30/how-not-to-tick-people-off-and-keep-them-coming-back-for-more/#comment-769141</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Nov 2007 19:22:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Blog Struggles: When Are Too Many Comments Too Many Comments? &#171; Lorelle on WordPress</title>
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		<dc:creator>Blog Struggles: When Are Too Many Comments Too Many Comments? &#171; Lorelle on WordPress</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2007 11:59:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Attack of the Mean Commenter: Blocking Commenters and Comments on Your WordPress Blog &#171; Lorelle on WordPress</title>
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		<dc:creator>Attack of the Mean Commenter: Blocking Commenters and Comments on Your WordPress Blog &#171; Lorelle on WordPress</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 11:49:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Learning About Blogging and How to Blog &#171; Lorelle on WordPress</title>
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		<dc:creator>Learning About Blogging and How to Blog &#171; Lorelle on WordPress</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2007 18:40:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Petit</title>
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		<dc:creator>Petit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Sep 2006 00:26:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Using new windows to open off site links can be frustrating or not. 

If I want to make sure, my readers finds their way back from a visit somewhere else, I may open them a new window, but a named one. This means that clicking many window opening links on my site, will paint all the off site stuff in the same window. 

I'm not using this technique often though, just when I invite my visitors to take a short excursion in the middle of my text.

Lorelle, don't you contradict yourself a bit here?

In your excellent tutorial "A Tagging Bookmarklet for WordPress and Wordpress.com Users", under "Changing the Tagging Bookmarklet Tag Links" you say about bookmarklet links:

"They can be off-site or on-site (intrasite) links. I personally prefer to keep my visitors on my blog, so I use intrasite links."

Yes, you do for some strange reason.
Your writing is good enough, that I'm coming back time and again, despite the fact, that I'm visiting others as well ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Using new windows to open off site links can be frustrating or not. </p>
<p>If I want to make sure, my readers finds their way back from a visit somewhere else, I may open them a new window, but a named one. This means that clicking many window opening links on my site, will paint all the off site stuff in the same window. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not using this technique often though, just when I invite my visitors to take a short excursion in the middle of my text.</p>
<p>Lorelle, don&#8217;t you contradict yourself a bit here?</p>
<p>In your excellent tutorial &#8220;A Tagging Bookmarklet for WordPress and WordPress.com Users&#8221;, under &#8220;Changing the Tagging Bookmarklet Tag Links&#8221; you say about bookmarklet links:</p>
<p>&#8220;They can be off-site or on-site (intrasite) links. I personally prefer to keep my visitors on my blog, so I use intrasite links.&#8221;</p>
<p>Yes, you do for some strange reason.<br />
Your writing is good enough, that I&#8217;m coming back time and again, despite the fact, that I&#8217;m visiting others as well <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: anon</title>
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		<dc:creator>anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2006 17:28:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"Users hate software that automatically does things they don’t want it to do."

Ha.  (Speaking as a programmer) all software has to do *something* automatically.  What else is it going to do, sit there and do nothing? (Plenty of vaporware does that too, I suppose.)

There are always features of any software program that someone somewhere hates.   You can then argue, well make the features customizable, and sure, that's very nice.  But here's the trick.  Let's say I make the links "dead" (that is, mindlessly open where they are).  Some people with certain browsers are trapped with this behavior because they do not have the option to change it.  OK, so let's say I make the links open somewhere else to resolve that.  Now I'll have the group of people who can't control their tabs or new windows who don't want this behavior coming after me.

Heh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Users hate software that automatically does things they don’t want it to do.&#8221;</p>
<p>Ha.  (Speaking as a programmer) all software has to do *something* automatically.  What else is it going to do, sit there and do nothing? (Plenty of vaporware does that too, I suppose.)</p>
<p>There are always features of any software program that someone somewhere hates.   You can then argue, well make the features customizable, and sure, that&#8217;s very nice.  But here&#8217;s the trick.  Let&#8217;s say I make the links &#8220;dead&#8221; (that is, mindlessly open where they are).  Some people with certain browsers are trapped with this behavior because they do not have the option to change it.  OK, so let&#8217;s say I make the links open somewhere else to resolve that.  Now I&#8217;ll have the group of people who can&#8217;t control their tabs or new windows who don&#8217;t want this behavior coming after me.</p>
<p>Heh.</p>
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		<title>By: anon</title>
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		<dc:creator>anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2006 17:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have my browser set up to capture all new links whether to new windows or not and dump them in a new tab.  I appreciate links that open up to new windows because I really dislike having the original page buried under newer ones.  The whole concept of "stacked" views should never have been used in the first place, IMO.  Anyway, I provide a named new window for all my external links as a courtesy to users, not because I'm afraid folks will navigate away from my page, but because that is my own preference.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have my browser set up to capture all new links whether to new windows or not and dump them in a new tab.  I appreciate links that open up to new windows because I really dislike having the original page buried under newer ones.  The whole concept of &#8220;stacked&#8221; views should never have been used in the first place, IMO.  Anyway, I provide a named new window for all my external links as a courtesy to users, not because I&#8217;m afraid folks will navigate away from my page, but because that is my own preference.</p>
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		<title>By: Maria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2006 14:41:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I once heard &lt;a href="http://www.37signals.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Jason Fried&lt;/a&gt; say something very wise about software development: Users hate software that automatically does things they don't want it to do. (e.g. MS Word). Fried said you should let users make their own decisions. I think this applies to web users also.

I hate multiple browser windows. If I want to open something separately, I will press the command key and open a new tab. I am the user. Let ME make that decision.

Another BIG turn off that unfortunately I find everywhere: Links that open PDFs without any warning.
It really angers me to click on a link to have to wait for the PDF plugin to start, download a document, etc. Every link to a PDF or other downloadable file should have a label that clearly indicates so.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I once heard <a href="http://www.37signals.com/" rel="nofollow">Jason Fried</a> say something very wise about software development: Users hate software that automatically does things they don&#8217;t want it to do. (e.g. MS Word). Fried said you should let users make their own decisions. I think this applies to web users also.</p>
<p>I hate multiple browser windows. If I want to open something separately, I will press the command key and open a new tab. I am the user. Let ME make that decision.</p>
<p>Another BIG turn off that unfortunately I find everywhere: Links that open PDFs without any warning.<br />
It really angers me to click on a link to have to wait for the PDF plugin to start, download a document, etc. Every link to a PDF or other downloadable file should have a label that clearly indicates so.</p>
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		<title>By: Roy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2006 13:46:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I strongly disagree with this post. Any link I make always opens in a new window. I also think it's disingenuous to say this will lead to people unsubscribing to a blog. What evidence is there to support that? I love how blog experts come up with an idea and than present like a hard and fast rule that if not followed will doom your blog.

The reason I have links open in a new window is because that's the way I like to explore the web. I appreciate it when a website does that for me. Many times a link will lead to another link and that to another. I would much rather have to close a few windows and be able to immediately go back to the original site if I want to look at something. I think most normal blog readers would agree with me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I strongly disagree with this post. Any link I make always opens in a new window. I also think it&#8217;s disingenuous to say this will lead to people unsubscribing to a blog. What evidence is there to support that? I love how blog experts come up with an idea and than present like a hard and fast rule that if not followed will doom your blog.</p>
<p>The reason I have links open in a new window is because that&#8217;s the way I like to explore the web. I appreciate it when a website does that for me. Many times a link will lead to another link and that to another. I would much rather have to close a few windows and be able to immediately go back to the original site if I want to look at something. I think most normal blog readers would agree with me.</p>
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		<title>By: Lorelle VanFossen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lorelle VanFossen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2006 13:16:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That's true, but you are the minority, and more importantly, I believe that links that open in new windows are required to be clearly identified as doing so as otherwise it wouldn't meet accessibility standards. Do yours?

For serious power Internet users, many of us now have mice with a thumb button. A click of the thumb button takes you back or forward from a web page with absolutely no effort. I can't live without mine. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s true, but you are the minority, and more importantly, I believe that links that open in new windows are required to be clearly identified as doing so as otherwise it wouldn&#8217;t meet accessibility standards. Do yours?</p>
<p>For serious power Internet users, many of us now have mice with a thumb button. A click of the thumb button takes you back or forward from a web page with absolutely no effort. I can&#8217;t live without mine.</p>
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