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		<title>By: Blog Struggles: Why Should Your Blog Have a Focus &#171; Lorelle on WordPress</title>
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		<title>By: Blog Struggles: When Are Too Many Comments Too Many Comments? &#171; Lorelle on WordPress</title>
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		<title>By: Attack of the Mean Commenter: Blocking Commenters and Comments on Your WordPress Blog &#171; Lorelle on WordPress</title>
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		<title>By: Learning About Blogging and How to Blog &#171; Lorelle on WordPress</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2007 18:40:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Petit</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Sep 2006 00:26:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Using new windows to open off site links can be frustrating or not. 

If I want to make sure, my readers finds their way back from a visit somewhere else, I may open them a new window, but a named one. This means that clicking many window opening links on my site, will paint all the off site stuff in the same window. 

I&#039;m not using this technique often though, just when I invite my visitors to take a short excursion in the middle of my text.

Lorelle, don&#039;t you contradict yourself a bit here?

In your excellent tutorial &quot;A Tagging Bookmarklet for WordPress and Wordpress.com Users&quot;, under &quot;Changing the Tagging Bookmarklet Tag Links&quot; you say about bookmarklet links:

&quot;They can be off-site or on-site (intrasite) links. I personally prefer to keep my visitors on my blog, so I use intrasite links.&quot;

Yes, you do for some strange reason.
Your writing is good enough, that I&#039;m coming back time and again, despite the fact, that I&#039;m visiting others as well ;)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Using new windows to open off site links can be frustrating or not. </p>
<p>If I want to make sure, my readers finds their way back from a visit somewhere else, I may open them a new window, but a named one. This means that clicking many window opening links on my site, will paint all the off site stuff in the same window. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not using this technique often though, just when I invite my visitors to take a short excursion in the middle of my text.</p>
<p>Lorelle, don&#8217;t you contradict yourself a bit here?</p>
<p>In your excellent tutorial &#8220;A Tagging Bookmarklet for WordPress and WordPress.com Users&#8221;, under &#8220;Changing the Tagging Bookmarklet Tag Links&#8221; you say about bookmarklet links:</p>
<p>&#8220;They can be off-site or on-site (intrasite) links. I personally prefer to keep my visitors on my blog, so I use intrasite links.&#8221;</p>
<p>Yes, you do for some strange reason.<br />
Your writing is good enough, that I&#8217;m coming back time and again, despite the fact, that I&#8217;m visiting others as well <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: anon</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[anon]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2006 17:28:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;Users hate software that automatically does things they don’t want it to do.&quot;

Ha.  (Speaking as a programmer) all software has to do *something* automatically.  What else is it going to do, sit there and do nothing? (Plenty of vaporware does that too, I suppose.)

There are always features of any software program that someone somewhere hates.   You can then argue, well make the features customizable, and sure, that&#039;s very nice.  But here&#039;s the trick.  Let&#039;s say I make the links &quot;dead&quot; (that is, mindlessly open where they are).  Some people with certain browsers are trapped with this behavior because they do not have the option to change it.  OK, so let&#039;s say I make the links open somewhere else to resolve that.  Now I&#039;ll have the group of people who can&#039;t control their tabs or new windows who don&#039;t want this behavior coming after me.

Heh.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Users hate software that automatically does things they don’t want it to do.&#8221;</p>
<p>Ha.  (Speaking as a programmer) all software has to do *something* automatically.  What else is it going to do, sit there and do nothing? (Plenty of vaporware does that too, I suppose.)</p>
<p>There are always features of any software program that someone somewhere hates.   You can then argue, well make the features customizable, and sure, that&#8217;s very nice.  But here&#8217;s the trick.  Let&#8217;s say I make the links &#8220;dead&#8221; (that is, mindlessly open where they are).  Some people with certain browsers are trapped with this behavior because they do not have the option to change it.  OK, so let&#8217;s say I make the links open somewhere else to resolve that.  Now I&#8217;ll have the group of people who can&#8217;t control their tabs or new windows who don&#8217;t want this behavior coming after me.</p>
<p>Heh.</p>
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		<title>By: anon</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2006 17:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have my browser set up to capture all new links whether to new windows or not and dump them in a new tab.  I appreciate links that open up to new windows because I really dislike having the original page buried under newer ones.  The whole concept of &quot;stacked&quot; views should never have been used in the first place, IMO.  Anyway, I provide a named new window for all my external links as a courtesy to users, not because I&#039;m afraid folks will navigate away from my page, but because that is my own preference.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have my browser set up to capture all new links whether to new windows or not and dump them in a new tab.  I appreciate links that open up to new windows because I really dislike having the original page buried under newer ones.  The whole concept of &#8220;stacked&#8221; views should never have been used in the first place, IMO.  Anyway, I provide a named new window for all my external links as a courtesy to users, not because I&#8217;m afraid folks will navigate away from my page, but because that is my own preference.</p>
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		<title>By: Maria</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2006 14:41:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I once heard &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.37signals.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Jason Fried&lt;/a&gt; say something very wise about software development: Users hate software that automatically does things they don&#039;t want it to do. (e.g. MS Word). Fried said you should let users make their own decisions. I think this applies to web users also.

I hate multiple browser windows. If I want to open something separately, I will press the command key and open a new tab. I am the user. Let ME make that decision.

Another BIG turn off that unfortunately I find everywhere: Links that open PDFs without any warning.
It really angers me to click on a link to have to wait for the PDF plugin to start, download a document, etc. Every link to a PDF or other downloadable file should have a label that clearly indicates so.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I once heard <a href="http://www.37signals.com/" rel="nofollow">Jason Fried</a> say something very wise about software development: Users hate software that automatically does things they don&#8217;t want it to do. (e.g. MS Word). Fried said you should let users make their own decisions. I think this applies to web users also.</p>
<p>I hate multiple browser windows. If I want to open something separately, I will press the command key and open a new tab. I am the user. Let ME make that decision.</p>
<p>Another BIG turn off that unfortunately I find everywhere: Links that open PDFs without any warning.<br />
It really angers me to click on a link to have to wait for the PDF plugin to start, download a document, etc. Every link to a PDF or other downloadable file should have a label that clearly indicates so.</p>
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		<title>By: Roy</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Roy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2006 13:46:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I strongly disagree with this post. Any link I make always opens in a new window. I also think it&#039;s disingenuous to say this will lead to people unsubscribing to a blog. What evidence is there to support that? I love how blog experts come up with an idea and than present like a hard and fast rule that if not followed will doom your blog.

The reason I have links open in a new window is because that&#039;s the way I like to explore the web. I appreciate it when a website does that for me. Many times a link will lead to another link and that to another. I would much rather have to close a few windows and be able to immediately go back to the original site if I want to look at something. I think most normal blog readers would agree with me.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I strongly disagree with this post. Any link I make always opens in a new window. I also think it&#8217;s disingenuous to say this will lead to people unsubscribing to a blog. What evidence is there to support that? I love how blog experts come up with an idea and than present like a hard and fast rule that if not followed will doom your blog.</p>
<p>The reason I have links open in a new window is because that&#8217;s the way I like to explore the web. I appreciate it when a website does that for me. Many times a link will lead to another link and that to another. I would much rather have to close a few windows and be able to immediately go back to the original site if I want to look at something. I think most normal blog readers would agree with me.</p>
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